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Some relationships are genuinely unsafe. Some people are unwilling to respect boundaries no matter how clearly they are communicated. Some dynamics are so damaging that distance becomes the healthiest choice available, but what I learned is that not every cutoff needs to be permanent. Sometimes a cutoff is not an ending. Sometimes it is a temporary but necessary protective boundary; a pause. A space between who you used to be and who you are becoming. A chance to figure out w

And for the first time…I didn’t listen. Not because I was confident. Not because I had it all figured out. But because something in me finally trusted that voice more than the noise.

One can reflect and acknowledge what happened to them, but if they are not able to at least speak to someone about it, then, in my opinion, they are still sitting in the shame, guilt, and secrecy of the event or events. Speak up, find your truth, and set yourself free from the abuse or pain that chains you.